3 Ways Disrespect Poisons the Presidential Race

We Deserve Better from Our Potential Leaders

If there’s one thing that stands out in the ongoing presidential election, it’s the sheer nastiness. As a leader, I wouldn’t hire any of the present candidates for my business. I wouldn’t want to work for any of them either.

My rejection comes down to one of the flashing neon features of this election: disrespect.

Insults? We Got ’Em

I see three ways disrespect poisons the presidential race:

  1. Disrespect among the candidates. Candidates set the tone, and the tone is terrible. Arguments about policy and ideas have taken a backseat to the pettiest of personal attacks. And who am I kidding? Policy debates aren’t in the backseat. They’re being dragged from the bumper.

  2. Disrespect among supporters. Following the tone set by candidates, supporters have joined in. They’ve goaded candidates to further extremes of badmouthing and mudslinging, even verbally and physically mistreated fellow voters.

  3. Disrespect for the American people in general. As far as I am concerned, this is the most important. Leadership is service. You can’t lead people you don’t respect. All you can do is boss and railroad.

Based on this third criterion, almost all the candidates are unfit to lead. Everyone vying for the White House has demonstrated varying levels of disregard for wide segments of the population. At best we’ve heard talk about unity from candidates who are hard to believe.

What’s Missing? Statesmanship

We expect our congresspersons to represent narrow interests. That’s their job. But the president does not represent one narrow interest, pitted against all others. The president is supposed to preside over the federal government.

The chief executive embodies the interests of the nation. He or she oversees the national bureaucracy, appoints judges, and defends the national interests on the international stage. We expect disagreements but not disdain.

It’s easy to dismiss this as a lofty ideal we rarely achieve. “What’s the point in trying?” we might say. By that logic, we might as well get rid of destinations because people get lost.

An ideal points us to a reality better than the one we're currently experiencing. From where I sit, that’s something we badly need. And nothing demonstrates it like the nastiness of the current contest.

Yes, American Politics Is Rowdy

We all know that American politics is rowdy. It’s a longstanding part of our tradition. In 1804 Alexander Hamilton was killed after a duel with Aaron Burr. Then vice president, Burr ultimately finished his term in office.

In 1856 Rep. Preston Brooks beat Sen. Charles Sumner unconscious on the floor the Senate with his walking stick. Brooks resigned his seat but was promptly reelected.

We like to point to positive outcomes of our rough-and-tumble approach, don’t we? The 1828 race between Andrew Jackson and John Quincy Adams was especially nasty. Adams supporters accused Jackson of murder, adultery, and worse.

Jackson supporters claimed Adams gambled with taxpayer money and procured women for the czar when Adams served in Russia as U.S. ambassador. Despite the vitriol, Jackson won the contest and remains one of the most iconic and popular U.S. presidents. I live in Tennessee, and it’s impossible miss his fame.

In 1964—a race I was actually around for—President Lyndon Johnson insinuated in one of the most powerful campaign ads of all time that Barry Goldwater would lead the country to nuclear annihilation. Johnson prevailed, and we’re still here.

But Count the Costs

But don’t forget, there are downsides to these feisty tactics as well. Richard Nixon comes to mind. I’m sure we can all point to examples on both sides of politicians whose hard-edged style had short-term gains but whose long-term impact actually did real damage the American political system.

And here we are again.

Civility might be rare in U.S. politics. But the American people deserve better from those campaigning to lead us. The lack of civility presents us all an abysmal bargain. We’re supposed to be loyal and respectful to a leader who openly disrespects his or her own fellow citizens.

None of us is served by these tactics. It encourages the worst and deprives us of statesmanship in a time when we need it most.

Can you name a moment in the current race when the rhetoric made you proud to be an American?

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